One day at dusk, a peasant was sitting on the threshold of his poor house, enjoying the coolness.  A road leading to the village ran nearby.
 
 A man walked along it, who, seeing the old man, thought: "This man is lazy, he does not work and sits on the threshold of his house all day."
 
 A little later another traveler appeared.  He thought: “This man is Don Juan.  Sits here to look at the passing girls and, perhaps, annoys them. "
 
 Finally, one forester walking into the village thought: “This man is a great worker.  He has worked hard all day and is now enjoying a lawful rest. "
 
 ... In reality, we cannot know much about the peasant who is sitting on the threshold of his house.  On the contrary, we can say a lot about the three travelers who entered the village: the first was a lazy person, the second was a womanizer, and the third was a great worker.
 
 Everything you say speaks about you;  especially when you're talking about someone else!
 
 Projection is a defense mechanism in which a person ascribes something to the outside world that belongs to his own inner world.  (Paul Valerie)