1.  Waste time feeling sorry for themselves.  2.  Give away their power they possess.  3.  Shy away from change.  4.  Squander energy on things they can't control.  5.  Worry about pleasing everyone.  6.  Fear taking risks or trying new things.  7.  Dwell on the past, living in the past.  8.  Repeat their mistakes.  9.  Resent other people's success.  10.  Give up after their first failure.  11.  Fear times they are alone.  12.  Feel like the world owes them.  13.  Expect immediate results.