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Hunger of love
Love in adulthood is a reflection of the very first attachment in a person’s life. Affection for parents. If in the process of development the child has not received enough acceptance, warmth, care, then this hunger will be tried by a person to drown in his adult state. In a relationship with a partner, he will behave like a hungry man who has reached food. Suddenly a person becomes extremely necessary. It is impossible to live without him. There is a feeling of heady happiness. Often in this state, a person in love ignores the alarm signals. He does not see how he is being devalued, he does not notice violence and neglect.
A little later, a feeling of dissatisfaction begins to grow. Such clients often come with a request: "I want him ...". This is a request to change the partner or his behavior. But, to leave this person and switch to himself, is not taken into account. What to do? Keep a balance in the relationship. Ask yourself questions: is it comfortable for me, what the partner shares with me, and what I share. If you have long been “sacrificing yourself” for the sake of a relationship, then this will not lead to anything good.
Do not force events. Give each other time to take a closer look. If you have difficulties in building relationships with your loved one, consult a psychologist. On our site you can find a specialist for the soul .
