Dreams are a beautiful way to feel uplifted, invigorated, and full of life.

After reflecting on the heart-warming dreams of many people I mentor for success, I thought about the nature of dreams. 

The awareness came to me that "Dreams are a beautiful way to feel uplifted, invigorated, and full of life."

Yet for many people dreams can also feel scary at first!

Yes, you might hold in your heart a vision that inspires you deeply, motivating you to grow. At the same time, your dream might feel insurmountable, far away, and completely out of your grasp.

You may be anxious and tempted to question yourself “Can I truly build this dream? Am I capable of achieving this?”

Some people even dismiss their dreams, thinking they’re silly, foolish, or unreasonable.

I assure you, Spirit didn’t plant the seed of your dream in your heart to tease you.

Spirit gave you the heart of your dream so you could stand up, stand out and claim it! Each dream inside you is an invitation for you to stand in your true nature.

Allow me to remind you, that "You are powerful beyond measure". ~Marianne Williamson

Even if it seems impossible right now you are capable of creating your dreams.

Anything you can dream of -- you can achieve.  As Henry Ford said decades ago, “Whether you think you can, or you think you can't – you're right.”

When it comes to your career or entrepreneurship, a mentor can be one of the fastest ways to get from where you are to where you want to be.

A mentor will assist you to identify and build up your strengths, recognize your weaknesses (and help with damage control), learn how to navigate office politics, figure out career or business questions, and generally be an advocate for your ongoing success.

You need to be clear about the reason for your mentoring request, so your potential mentor will have an idea of how to help – or whether he or she can, in fact, help.

Regarding structuring your work with a mentor, are you hoping to meet for coffee and discussion once a week, once a month, or some other schedule? (Needless to say, this will depend on the availability of your mentor, but it’s good to provide a sense of what you were thinking.)

And are you looking for general guidance on your key issues, recommendations for reading and/or resources, professional connections, suggested actions to undertake/practice, or some other type of mentoring?

Once you’ve thought through these issues, you’re ready to ask someone to mentor you. Here’s how to do that:

Schedule an initial conversation. Ask your potential mentor if he/she can make time for a 15-30 minute chat with you. You don’t want to be rushed, and you want plenty of time for the other person to ask you questions about your goals, etc.

Clearly describe the guidance you’re seeking. This is where that preliminary brainstorming on your part will help you articulate what you have in mind.

Confirm your willingness to do the necessary work and follow through. There’s nothing more frustrating than mentoring someone who doesn’t do the work necessary to take advantage of the advice, so you want to make it clear to your potential mentor that you’re ready to commit the time, energy, and effort to make the most of their counsel (and time).

Acknowledge and respect her/his time. Many people who are asked to become mentors are highly successful in their careers or business, which means they’re also very busy and much in demand. So it’s important for you to acknowledge that, and make it clear how much you appreciate their considering your request. This is also the way to provide a graceful “out,” letting the other person cite an overbooked schedule for declining your request.

Stand in your true power, claim your dreams and go for them, with Strength, Courage, Calm, and Persistence. 

Contact me if you are interested in a mentor. 

Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, Ph.D.

Dr. Dorothy is passionate about developing business leaders and entrepreneurs. She works with senior and emerging executives to amplify their leadership skills and drive viable/sustainable organizations with relevant, adaptable, centered, and authentic skills. International Best Selling Author, and Speaker. Dr. Dorothy facilitates clearing blocks, fears, and limiting beliefs. You can live the life you desire. She brings awareness to concepts not typically obvious to one's thoughts and awareness.  https://drdorothyspeaks.com