Every single person on the planet has experienced holding a grudge. Heck, even elephants know how to hold a grudge. They literally never forget! But the longer we hold on to these grudges, the more unhappy we will become. Do you think this other person is bothering to hold a grudge against you? Depending on the situation, maybe they will, maybe they won’t. The more you fixate on what another person has done to you, the more power you give them over your emotions. In that way, you are letting your enemy win! So don’t let them be the victor.