Do an honest self-appraisal and think about what your greatest weaknesses are. They are the ones holding you back. You probably don’t have to think hard to know your weaknesses. In fact, your weaknesses probably scream at you every day. Chances are, you probably spend a lot of energy trying not to think about them.

Instead, understand that it’s not a big deal to have weaknesses. In fact, many people have had to overcome worse weaknesses than yours. And the same people have achieved greater things than you have in your life so far. So, looking at your weaknesses in the eye won’t hurt. And you’ll grow confident from your honesty and courageousness.

Another benefit is the conscious feeling of yourself suddenly becoming more real. Now think of the person, real or fictional who is the absolute strongest where you are the weakest. Who is a hero when you are a rabbit that runs and hides? Who excels at the highest level at something you are terrible at or afraid to attempt?

So if you want to make people laugh, watch a stand-up comedian or more funny movies. Your mind will start to mirror these funny people and work more like theirs. And you’ll find your funny bone in no time.

If you are a pushover who shies away from confrontation when someone is stepping on you, watch media showing assertive people who don’t take any garbage from anyone. Darth Vader comes to mind as a good example to stretch your neurons in a different direction. And don’t worry, you are in no danger of becoming the evil Sith Lord.

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