WHO ARE YOU WHEN NOBODY IS WATCHING???

It's how we act in the moments when no one is watching us that truly determines who we are and who we can become.

We have to be the ones to constantly hold ourselves accountable, not rely on or expect others to do it for us.

We can trick others that we're on top of our shit and that we have everything all figured out, but we can never honestly fool ourselves.

We can try to trick ourselves, which we often do, but deep down we always know if we're giving it our all and acting according to our core values or not.

I'll be the first to admit that by no means do I have my shit all figured out and I constantly try to trick myself, so I know just how difficult this can be.

I can confidently say though that I have my shit MUCH MORE together than last month, and WAAAY MORE together than 2 months ago, due to the ongoing habits and practices I've developed by taking advantage of my alone time.

I don't have anyone making me wake up early and meditate.

I don't have anyone making me practice gratitude.

I don't have anyone making me exercise daily.

I don't have anyone making me stick to my diet.

I haven't always been perfect with these, as I've missed some of these practices on occasion, but that's the things it's occasionally not the norm and that's made all the difference, and I know by continuing to be consistent and develop, improve, and fine-tune these habits and practices I will be exponentially better next month, and the month after that and so on.

We are all the leaders of our own lives so we have to act as leaders even when no one is watching us!

But beyond just being leaders of our own lives we are leaders of others as well, as we all have someone whether we know it or not who is looking up to us in some way.

Whether this is a significant other, family member, friend, colleague, or acquaintance we have the responsibility to lead and help those around us.

So we must accept this responsibility graciously and lovingly, as we try to be our best selves, while constantly forgiving ourselves for all of our mistakes along the way.

IF WE TRULY LOVE OURSELVES OR ANYONE ELSE WE MUST CHOOSE TO BE THE BEST LEADERS WE CAN BE!

I don't have anyone making me read, listen to podcasts or attend masterclasses.

I don't have anyone making me use the sauna daily.

I don't have anyone making me write in my journal.