We Came Into This Life

Within seconds our existence is provided and infused into our being and our reality. Who birth you, (realities within realities) where on this planet. This is where and with whom you came into being and have be experiences in the now and the years to come. So the question is who you are and what will you become? Whatever you answer will likely be a program, paradigm...a model that is put there by the outside world which you accepted as your life/reality?

 

These written words are the themes of my ideas, insights, passions and life as I grew from am infant to a man. My aim is to explore my reasoning that leads to believes from others, education and personal insights. I doubt I have the ultimate answers. Our relationships, images, thoughts of past and present differ. Travel with me if you choose. This is not a right or wrong issue but a document that hopefully exposes ideas, maybe realities not often presented, thought or talked about. I don't want this to be my subjective truths but an effort to be as close to objective truths!

 

So you as a reader look deep at yourselves, ask where your life is leading you. Ask why you made the choices you made and think what actions have manifested. The aim is to take responsibility not as negative behavior but to learn from what happened and look deeply to learn from the events.

 

What might other decisions have been? Wake up to possibilities and the forces that lead you to do what you have done. By nature we are all very creative being so be open to other possibilities of behavior.

As we take our first breath as a baby. The future was yet to be lived.

We as individuals enter a relationship with our natural existence.   Finding out you who? Or why you are alive are questions of important interest…. life is fraught with ferocious odds!

 

The 5 points below present a summary inspects of how we see / understand our existence.

1. Once your time is up that’s it ….you will no longer exist…. the show is over. There is no after life. Some religions, such as Buddhism, have been characterized as atheistic because of their lack of belief in a God /Creator

2. We don’t know what will become of you, It remains in question and the answer might come along the way….Agnostics

3. We live a good life end up in heaven or a bad life end up in hell. Whatever that might mean?

4. We re-incarnate given another opportunity to resolve some issues or karma.

5. We are an eternal being invited to this great adventure to collaborate in a great experiment of duality that stretches for eons

The great experiment of duality take us to the sine wave. When explained it can be useful regardless of how you may experience/view life.

 

Positive Experience   Time Line From DOB BALANCE Line   Negative Experience

 

 

Positive Experience

a) Great Parents with Care & Love

b) Most or all necessities in place

c) The roads ahead are all good leading to a successful life

 

Negative Experience

a) No Parents or poor unloving parents

b) Little or no necessities leading to ill health & low expectation

c) Early death

 

BALANCE Time Line

a) Balanced Self free of additive behavior

b) Self-actualized at your highest potential

c) The Source moving through relationships quickly and balanced

d) You Highest Self

 

The next section illustrates an event in the life of a family to understand how programmed behavior effects our actions

We may all be familiar with the Oscillating Sine Wave.

The base line is considered as a span of time. For this conversation consider it as the balance between the movement of the wave above the base line and below the base line. The base line of time here is your span of time for individuals. The wave is our experiences as we move forward in lives from highs and low periods. You can also think of the base line as the road for living a balanced life.

For example as initially stated…you are in a relationship with all you will be experiencing. How you react will be formed by how you view your existence.

1. Once your time is up that’s it.You will no longer exist the show is over. There is no after life. Some religions, such as Buddhism, have been characterized as atheistic because of their lack of belief in a God / Creator

2. We don’t know what will become of you, it remains in question and the answer might come along the way….Agnostics

3. We live a good life end up in heaven or a bad life end up in hell. Whatever that might mean to us?

4. We re-incarnate given another opportunity to resolve some issues or karma.

5. We are an eternal being invited to this great adventure to collaborate in a great experiment of duality that stretches for eons

The next section illustrates an event in the life of a family to understand how programmed behavior effects their actions

.A young man, John and Mary met and move forward in their lives together and eventually got married. Both came from loving/caring parent. John and Mary attended the best schools and graduated at the top of their class. They went on to higher education and on graduation have wonderful careers, a beautiful home, brand new cars and many great vacations. After several years of their marriage they decide to have a child. They have a little boy Tommy, who is playful, is healthy, well behaved and excels in school like his Mom and Dad.. 

In relationship to the sine wave this is the upward climb on the sine wave where things are so wonderful and everybody is so happy.... feeling that this will go on forever as nothing could ever go wrong with their lives.

Dramatic change after Tommy turns 13. John, his father has been having an affair with one of coworkers, Wanda. Mary, his wife is devastated. John moves out of their home .Stressed financially he burdened having pay alimony and child support. The Tommy feels responsible and lost.  He rebels and acts out complicating the whole scenario of the family.

Tommy is having trouble in school. He's not performing well. His grades are dropping off. He starts missing classes, forming of relationship with some of the the local gangs. 

Mary feeling helpless, John accuses her of being a bad mother to Tommy which sent her into clinical deep depression. John starts to drink in excess. Tommy is doing drugs. 

This is the crossing into the lower part of the sine wave The medium base line not only represents a time line period but a life that is balanced where our choices are guided by our highest rational self should we choose to hear?  We get addicted to the ups and we get addicted to the downs. 

In the example used the family is in a sense is working on their own sine wave. To be in a state of balance you don’t think of yourself as bad but as a responsible man, woman or child taking responsibility for action. You are leaning from the positive or negative behavior. You are not addicted to feeling of pleasure, loss or pain. What positive behavior worked for you and others? 

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https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/46473/if---

If—

By Rudyard Kipling

(‘Brother Square-Toes’—Rewards and Fairies)

If you can keep your head when all about you   

    Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,   

If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,

    But make allowance for their doubting too;   

If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,

    Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,

Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,

    And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;   

If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;   

If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster

    And treat those two impostors just the same;   

If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken

    Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,

Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,

    And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

 

If you can make one heap of all your winnings

    And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,

And lose, and start again at your beginnings

    And never breathe a word about your loss;

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew

    To serve your turn long after they are gone,   

And so hold on when there is nothing in you

    Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

 

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,   

    Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,

If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,

    If all men count with you, but none too much;

If you can fill the unforgiving minute

    With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,   

Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,   

 And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!